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In instances there have been,a guy comes up and tries to pick up on me and I see that they have a girlfriend on their profile and their girlfriend doesn't even know. That's sad..People can make you feel like your their WORLD. Like nothing else matters to them, your all they need. They wouldn't cheat on you,right?

I've always told myself that I wouldn't be one of those girls that are so naive and are too blind to see that their bf is cheating,even when its obvious. Not saying that ALL guys cheat, or that EVERYONE should be afraid.Because that's just the thing...people aren't afraid because they aren't aware.

If your significant other makes you feel like your the only one,then your gonna accept it..your gonna feel like your the only one,no need in being paranoid. Meanwhile, your bf is telling another girl all the things he tells you..making her feel like she's the only one.

Honestly,There are very many situations I've seen and been in where the guy cheats. And I'm not saying it's just guys who cheat it is girls as well. I've been cheated on many times...So have a lot of other people. I really wish people would see how much it hurts to be cheated on. How the ******** would you like it? You ******** CHOSE to be in the relationship. If you wanna ******** around with someone else then save the person some time..and a heartbreak. And for you guys,you make the good guys look bad just because your horny a** has to cheat. I know some really good guys who have never cheated,Props up to them.

I think that a guy can be in a happy relationship,but if given the opportunity...they will cheat.Guys can have sex with girls with out having feelings for them. So that makes it easy for them to go back to their gf without feeling any remorse.

I think the difference between a guy & a girl is that : a girl needs to have a REASON to cheat; a guy just needs to have a time & place.

And you know sometimes the guy can be tempted by the sluts that pick up on them on the streets or at the bar. Just remember,NEVER let your man kick it with his homies (lol) because my stepmother once told me that if they go with their homies. They WILL cheat. Because their friends will most likely take them to a party with some girls or something. This works because...MY dad uses to be a BIG cheater...And my stepmom made him stop going out and stop seeing his friends. And ever since he has not cheated once...It's been about 5 years too.

And I know I've cheated before but that doesn't mean I'll ever do it again. I hate cheating now. All I'm saying is people shouldn't ******** you if you cheat....Hope karma bites you back...