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This is my journale entree. It is French today! You know what? I am going to write about something really personal and deep and see how many comments I can get. but not TOO personal and deep. "Willy Wonka, Willy Wonka, the amazing chocolateer! Willy Wonka, Willy Wonka, everybody give a cheer!" Yeah okay. Now that I've got that difficult stuff on my chest, it is time for the really light-hearted stuff..... Do you think it hurts more to love someone who doesn't love you back or to not love anyone at all, when you have known love before? Do you think friends come before lovers or the other way around? Or does it depend upon situation? If so, WHAT situation? If someone is sort of insensitive sometimes, and they've thrown your emotions around, but you really care for them a lot as either friend or boyfriend/girlfriend, what do you do? What do you do when you have popcorn stuck in your teeth and it just won't ******** get out? cha......those are my questions for any people who would care to answer. They're just random, some pertaining to my life some really not, I guess. Some of them are just stuff I've wondered about. I'd like to know what people think. (handy hint; don't read other people's comments if there are any until you've written something, because that way you won't be influenced by what other people say, cha?) Okey dokey then, bye!

Posted by: the silver fire Mon Oct 16, 2006 @ 11:39pm

I'm a girl, in real life, my avi is just.....confused. sweatdrop

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Commented on: Tue Oct 17, 2006 @ 03:09am


	Wow....first to comment.....alright!! Anywho, here are my answers to your questions: 1. I think it hurts more when you love someone, but they don't love you back. When you don't love anyone at all, you don't really think about it (at least in my case), but when someone doesn't seem to share the same feelings with you, it hurts as hell! 2. You know what!? I don't really know!! I mean, you would think that your lover is supposed to be really important to you, but then, your friends are really important aswell. I mean, sometimes, many times, you're friends with someone, and then you start loving them. I think it does depend on the situation, but then....I don't really have any good examples.... redface A very good question that was though!! 3. Well, for this one, I'm not exactly sure either because I haven't ever REALLY had to deal with it. If it REALLY happened to me though, I'd probably want to talk to the person, and sort things out. Tell people your feelings. That always feels really good. Um.....what else? Well, all I know is that I would never want to lose a FRIEND over a matter like that. I cherish my friends like crazy, and I would be really upset if any of them weren't my friends anymore!! As for a lover, well, if they are your lover, then you should be able to talk to them about it. However, if your going into the line of abuse......now that's hard....I'd probably seek help from a friend or relative, or something like that, and find a way to get out of it. Just telling people about it is hard because well, if you love the person, I don't think you'd want to admit that your lover is mistreating you, and not pleasing you. Plus, there's the whole thing with if the abuser finds out and gets angry......cha.......that's pretty much it for that question. Moving on. 4. Get a toothpick. They work wonders! Hope I have helped! blaugh

Commented on: Tue Oct 17, 2006 @ 01:13pm


	Um ok so like do you love some one and they don't love you? Well that hurts alot but how do you KNOW they don't like yoy have you asked em?? Well I know now ya feel I went tough the same thing... Love befor friends... But unless... Well unless.... Something REALY bad is happaning to you friend and your love is ok... If they thorow you around alot cuz there insensative then leave em finde on other sensative guy like me not say me but some one LIKE me... And the popcorn.... get some floss silly! blaugh

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Commented on: Tue Oct 17, 2006 @ 10:12pm


	floss and toothpicks hate me. They HATE me, I'm not kidding! thanks, guys, for your insights. It's cool seeing what everyone thinks....I'm still sort of confused though cause everything is contradicting. Oh well, I really appreciate you commenting! Well, I mean if you absolutely KNOW someone doesn't love you back. Like for a fact. Just say that because that makes my question easier to understand, I guess. Just because that way, if you have hope, it hurts less. But I need extremes for my example to work, cha? I dunno about love before friends or friends before love. It's a tough pick. I dunno about the other one either. Thank you thank you for your comments though!!! I really really do appreciate them!!!

Commented on: Tue Oct 17, 2006 @ 10:43pm


	Your welcome and if theres porsonle stuff you want to talk about ill talk with ya no secret will leave my lips! 3nodding

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Commented on: Wed Oct 18, 2006 @ 02:49am


	Thanks, Bram, that's really nice of you. If I ever feel up to it, then i'll hold you to that.... 3nodding Yup. Someone else comment, also! I want lotsa people (no offense Claire and Bram, I still appreciate your comments a ton ton ton I just want to inspire others as well.....cha....)!

Commented on: Wed Oct 18, 2006 @ 12:50pm


	llalalalala I just have a new fave manga!!! + Anima!!! Omfg its so good!!!!!!!!!!

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Commented on: Wed Oct 18, 2006 @ 10:08pm


	shut up Bram.....I keep thinking someone has commented something deep and personal on my journal and then it's just you cyber-singing.....weirdo........ Ah, ya, I'm mean. blaugh

Commented on: Thu Oct 19, 2006 @ 01:48am


	heh sorry... mrgreen

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Commented on: Thu Oct 19, 2006 @ 01:51am


	I think it hurts a hell of a lot more to not have someone love yo back... I've felt that twice and it frggin' hurts like s**t... It depends on how much you love your friend, and how much you love the person you love. If your friend is more important, your friend. If not, then your love. You tell them you love them anyway, because no ones perfect and we always have annoying things abut us. And you slosh water in your mouth until the kernels get loose then pick 'em out with your tongue or a toothbrush. Works for me. Have fun!

Commented on: Fri Oct 20, 2006 @ 03:03am


	1. I think it hurts a lot lot lot lot more to have someone not love you back. That's happened to me, but only with a really really stupid crush, so I feel ashamed to bring that up, but anyway, yeah... 2. You know what? Asking me this question is just about as good as asking your right toenail....okay, maybe I'm better, but it definitely depends on the situation. For example, if your friends tell you that the guy you like is bad, find out if the info is true or not be4 running into the open arms of your lover. rolleyes 3. You know what I usually do? I know this sounds really mean, but I ask them 5 things that really piss them off. And then I list 5 of mine and bluntly (i mean bluntly) mention that you hate it when someone, you know, like "throws your emotions around", and give an example. But don't do like, "Oh, I hate it when my friends throw candy wrappers at me." And the friend like just finished throwing candy wrapppers at you. I hope that helps some. sweatdrop 4. Usually I just like drink something hot, and then just like watch a movie while your doing it, it helps, I don't know why, it just does..... sweatdrop 3nodding 4laugh Sorry if I missed something. Hope that helped. Bye La Fey. 4laugh 4laugh

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Commented on: Fri Oct 20, 2006 @ 03:25am


	Maya, Maya, Maya.....oh, Maya.....I think my right toenail is better, Maya..... blaugh xd I sort of was a little confused with what you said in #3....I think I get it though. You're talking about friends, cha? Righty ho, gotcha! 'tank you. I've noticed everyone seems to agree on #1. So now I have a question for you all.... Are you sure? Because think about it. If you truly love someone, it is a beautiful thing, even if they DON'T love you back. It is painful, yes, but it gives you something to look forward each day when you leave the house, the fact that you will see him or her. That's why I asked which is harder. Because when you don't love anyone at all, then it seems like you'd just be.....empty. If you still believe what you said than that makes perfect sense, but consider what I've just said, also! 3nodding

Commented on: Fri Oct 20, 2006 @ 12:42pm


	Yes well Zoe when you don't have any one to love you don't feel like sad cuz some one hates you your just like...not loved but you keep your minde on waiting to tell some one you DO like so it keeps you off being sad about having no one like you I mean come on no one loves me

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Commented on: Fri Oct 20, 2006 @ 06:58pm


	First of all, I only sort of understand that incredibly long and confusing "sentence." Second of all, people love you, Bram! You're awesome! heart I'd say I love you, but you might take that weird..... redface sweatdrop

Commented on: Sat Oct 21, 2006 @ 02:07am


	allo eoz. i had to leave to go to the chorus concert before i could comment, love....by the time we got back i was too tired and had to sleep. yeah, love. patience, patience! the pain you feel when the girl or boy you love doesn't love you back is you can't describe it it hurts more than a bloody scrape or a kneebutt in the eye if you feel as though you love no one at all you shouldn't feel guilty about your feelings having faith of finding your love warms up your heart and i have faith in you zoe when you find yourself caring deeply for a friend and going down the pathway of loving them you can find yourself drawn to thinking of them as the one person that is the most important to you there are some attributes to your lover that you cannot find in a friend though there are limited numbers of those if the feelings of trust and the kind of meaningful love that feels comfortable to you are true than both can remain just as important approach them and let your feelings out say what you have been meaning to say and let your words pour out from your heart and thoughts 'tis truly genuine if you feel as though you can trust them to speak your mind without hesitation if you feel reluctant you can always come to a friend love i tend to poke around with my bare fingers and pluck the kernels out or i just swallow them whole if i have disgusted you i apologize deeply love i'm sorry i failed to comment for a while, love see you !

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Commented on: Sat Oct 21, 2006 @ 02:31am


	Ok wait wait wait you love me??? question blaugh

Commented on: Sat Oct 21, 2006 @ 04:06am


	Zeta, some day i will KILL you for not having periods at the end of your sentences. KILL. YOU. Other than that, I don't have any idea what you said really....first off the periods thing, but also like, you just sort of ramble off in crazy directions! I was like, "aah! What the hell? I didn't say anything about that!" I think you ramble more than I do.

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