Within the last month I have been having dreams that always have my half-sister Rachel in them and for those of who I haven't told why I hate Rachel it is because she all most killed my father and she isn't even sorry!
She didn't care if she did or didn't kill him!
and she doesn't see what I see every time I close my eyes trying to block out that day!
these are some things I got of google about reaccuring dreams....
Recurring Dreams
Recurring dreams are similar to dream themes, except that in dream themes the dream itself can change, while in a true recurring dream or nightmare, the dream narrative is always the same or nearly identical. This is pointing out something very important for you to "get" and understand, and usually recurs during triggering events in your life that the dream represents. For instance, if the dream represents fear of abandonment, and all of a sudden you & your spouse are having marital difficulties, then this dream could recur. Same thing if a spouse or loved one dies or moves away--those events could also trigger the dream to recur. What seems like a nuisance or unpleasant nightmare is really a helpful signal to you that there is an issue that's deeply bothering you and needs to be brought to the surface and fully healed. Once this is done, the recurring dream will either evolve or disappear from your dreams altogether. If you find the dream or nightmare getting WORSE instead of better, you are getting a stronger message to correct the issue it represents before it becomes a much bigger problem in your life, and I wouldn't suggest ignoring that message, if I were you!
this is from:
http://dreamemporium.com/nightmares.html
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recurring dreams
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Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.
Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month, but whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.
The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled. Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.
Following are some tips in overcoming your recurring dreams.
1. In understanding your recurring dream, you must be willing to accept some sort of change or undergo a transformation.
2. You must be willing to look within yourself and confront whatever you may find no matter how difficult it my be.
3. You must be able to look at the dream from an objective point of view. Try to get pass the emotional and reactive elements of the dream and get down to the symbolic images. Many times dreams are masked by elements that are disturbing preventing you to delve any deeper. This is a defense mechanism that your unconscious may be putting up.
4. Be patient. Do not get discourage if these dreams still recur even after you thought you have come to understand them.
5. Learn to accept yourself truly and fully.
Often times, once you discover what your recurring dream is trying to tell you, these dreams will change or altogether disappear.
this is from:
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreaminformation/dreamtypes/recurringdreams.htm
I can't seem to get past even step one!
I'm not scared of confronting Rachel but Imso angry anything I say could come out the wrong way I don't want ehr thinking I care if she is pregnant and wants me there because I can barely stand the fact she has the nerve to ask after she wasn't even sorry for what she said or did and you know she ran like a chicken before my ma could make it home because she knew my ma would have beatin' her to a bloody pulp for not only giving my father something to knock him out cold and amke him O.D. but because she stole tons of s**t from here while my dad lay dying on teh bed and if I ahd known what and O.D.ed victim looked like I would have done something earlier!!!
She didn't care if she did or didn't kill him!
and she doesn't see what I see every time I close my eyes trying to block out that day!
these are some things I got of google about reaccuring dreams....
Recurring Dreams
Recurring dreams are similar to dream themes, except that in dream themes the dream itself can change, while in a true recurring dream or nightmare, the dream narrative is always the same or nearly identical. This is pointing out something very important for you to "get" and understand, and usually recurs during triggering events in your life that the dream represents. For instance, if the dream represents fear of abandonment, and all of a sudden you & your spouse are having marital difficulties, then this dream could recur. Same thing if a spouse or loved one dies or moves away--those events could also trigger the dream to recur. What seems like a nuisance or unpleasant nightmare is really a helpful signal to you that there is an issue that's deeply bothering you and needs to be brought to the surface and fully healed. Once this is done, the recurring dream will either evolve or disappear from your dreams altogether. If you find the dream or nightmare getting WORSE instead of better, you are getting a stronger message to correct the issue it represents before it becomes a much bigger problem in your life, and I wouldn't suggest ignoring that message, if I were you!
this is from:
http://dreamemporium.com/nightmares.html
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recurring dreams
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Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.
Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month, but whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.
The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled. Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.
Following are some tips in overcoming your recurring dreams.
1. In understanding your recurring dream, you must be willing to accept some sort of change or undergo a transformation.
2. You must be willing to look within yourself and confront whatever you may find no matter how difficult it my be.
3. You must be able to look at the dream from an objective point of view. Try to get pass the emotional and reactive elements of the dream and get down to the symbolic images. Many times dreams are masked by elements that are disturbing preventing you to delve any deeper. This is a defense mechanism that your unconscious may be putting up.
4. Be patient. Do not get discourage if these dreams still recur even after you thought you have come to understand them.
5. Learn to accept yourself truly and fully.
Often times, once you discover what your recurring dream is trying to tell you, these dreams will change or altogether disappear.
this is from:
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreaminformation/dreamtypes/recurringdreams.htm
I can't seem to get past even step one!
I'm not scared of confronting Rachel but Imso angry anything I say could come out the wrong way I don't want ehr thinking I care if she is pregnant and wants me there because I can barely stand the fact she has the nerve to ask after she wasn't even sorry for what she said or did and you know she ran like a chicken before my ma could make it home because she knew my ma would have beatin' her to a bloody pulp for not only giving my father something to knock him out cold and amke him O.D. but because she stole tons of s**t from here while my dad lay dying on teh bed and if I ahd known what and O.D.ed victim looked like I would have done something earlier!!!
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