It's been a while since I was on Gaia, and a lot has changed.
Personally, I've grown quite a bit from the last couple years. I got a job, then got another, which resulted in me quitting my first job. This second job I got is actually one of my dream jobs. Disneyland.
Now, here's the thing though. For this job, I have to most likely wear a dress because of my gender, being as I am female.
Here's my problem. I don't really identify myself as a female anymore. I'm more like both genders. I've gone through a major identity crisis, and I believe I found out who I really am...*both genders* in one body.
So...there's my female self. I already have a name for my female identity. That's my birth name. And now for my Male identity, I had a tough time deciding what to call myself. I have the privilege of asking my mom what she was going to name me if I turned out to be Male and she told me. (My mom is pretty cool with the LGBTQ community, but she doesn't really know about my identity). So. My Male identity is Vincent, or Vinny for short.
This is pretty therapeutic for me to write this down, because I usually keep things to myself. lol.
But yeah. Here's my only problem right now. There are three categories I feel like I fall under. I feel as though I have to choose one category. I fall under:
- Genderfluid
- BiGender
- Genderqueer
So, if anybody does read this...please contact me to further my knowledge on this. I tried, and I don't really know myself.
Anyway...
Until next time.
- Vinny
Metallic Weasel Community Member 
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