Grrrrrrrrr.
So, for the last, two years? dad has put his computer before his family. Even snapping at his grandchildren. Its mostly obessed with Facebook and Myyearbook.
Recently however he started only looking at womens pages, calling them sexy, gorgeous, stunning etc. He's been married to mum for 33 years.
On, Tuesday I used his computer because my internet wasn't working and was trying to go on my yearbook account (had an email from them was curious) and dad was signed in as "Paddy Jones" (One of his many accounts) ... we're 'lomax' not Jones. It popped up with messages, him telling people they're gorgeous and they 'matched' (its a 'fun' date etc site) and one girl in particular, he asked to meet up with and told her he was getting a divorce. Now rewind three days he told mum he didn't want to.
My nan died a month ago, mum has really struggled, nan has been ill for a LONG time (all types of cancer, she was riddled at the end and was being treated by DERMATOLOGY not Oncology! Due to a stupid doctor)
During the time of nan dying - it was touch and go for a month beforehand dad didnt even ask how things were, didnt support mum at all. Running, gaming (D&D), army crap etc was more important.
Well, because mum was away with my sister and nephew at Brainwave - intense physio for disabled children when I found out what he'd been doing. I didnt tell her then I was unsure whether to or not. I created a fake account contacting those ladies he'd been messaging telling them the truth (Boy were they shocked!) and one obviously told dad because "i" got a message saying " **** off you **** stirring little brat"... I decided to ask mum how they were really getting on, she said okay.
I told her, I shown her everything. They had it out. But not enough, so tonight they went out to talk. THey've just got home and mum went for a walk coming back to tell me divorce. He is moving out after Christmas. Guess what he is doing? Yep! You got it! Myyearbook! Already talking to these, women.
He has also tried making out it is mums fault for all of this he really has no emotion at all. My mum is devastated he doesn't care at all. I'm so angry for her. I'm upset for her. I wish I could just beat the life out of him until he realises what a stupid idiot he has been. But I know, I can't say anything. I can't do anything.
No need to reply but I need to let it out somewhere.
[Nympho] Whore · Tue Nov 16, 2010 @ 11:26pm · 0 Comments |