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i find that when i talk to people they at one point tell me that they have loads of friends and i think, that poor lonely dumb!@#. the only reason i say that is becuse i have taken notice that people dont really talk to another in the way people would actually like. people do indeed have many friends but most of them wont even talk back which causes gaps in people's relationships to one another, im no doctor or therapist but in cases like that how an you call them friends there more like people you know. i tell people that you can only get friends by actually putting effort in to it, its not like you can talk to them once and then you the best buds. i hear people say i have no friend...well have you actually tried have you ever went up to some one a attempt to make a conversation or have you ever have some one talk to you but you backed down befor it ended. i have a friend that im working on and it going ok but im the only one starting the conversations my friend has never started a conversation but im working on it.