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Because the ones I have are going to send me to the mental hospital or to the grave with a stress related heart attack!
I try to help them in the best way that I can with the knowledge that other wise adults have passed to me. Of course they don't want to hear it when you're only telling the truth, but having spoiled lazy brats as companions isn't healthy for you.

I mean sure someone to be all life loving, free spirit, the sky's the limit, no worries in the world, & not giving two shits how much of a financial burden they are to you (& everyone else choosing to be involved) might be appealing at first & liberating to your soul if you're mostly serious about taking care of your damn buisness.

I don't want to be mean, but people who don't even try to care for themselves & expect mommy & daddy to take care of absolutely everything for them, & when I say everything I mean EVERYTHING! Including college from freshmen year to the last year of grad school however many times they go for however many diplomas they choose to pursue!

Sure it's great to not have to worry about that stuff since they foot the bill, but it's absolutely selfish to not even attempt to help them pay for YOUR stuff. They still have things they need to pay for & probably a retirement to save for! Their ability to care for themselves once they stop working is greatly diminished when they have to baby a child over the age of 19! What if one dies or gets layed off before retirement? They won't have s**t if they're still babying their lazy kids who don't want to work a little to help themselves get on their own two feet!