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I managed to mess up again. This time, I'm feeling bad for nothing. Literally.
I don't write about someone, but I mention someone else...and pow.
Nice lovely post that makes me wonder why I even bother.

I would [never] cause somebody pain if it could be avoided.
I would never write something to hurt someone.
People go off and get made at me because they take something in a way that I never ever considered and then they make me feel like crap about it.
They make me feel like a pitiful person.
They make me feel like I'm unworthy of kissing their feet.

Sure, I can relate. But give me some credit, please...
You people know me. You know enough to publish a book.
Do you honestly think that I would do something if I knew it would hurt you?
Do you truly believe that I'd say something to make you hate me?

But it doesn't matter how much I tell you that I wouldn't cause you pain, because right now you hate me, so you're going to believe whatever you want.

So maybe I don't [always] stop to think about what a person might feel if I say/write something.
You make me feel like I'm a bad person for making a mistake.

I am human. I make them, as do you.
Obvisouly, when I do mess up, I mess up good.
And lately, when it comes to you, I've been messing up a whole lot.
For that, I'm sorry.
I don't know what's wrong with me.

When I say I'm sorry, I mean it.
I want to know if I hurt your feelings or scare you, or anything like that...but I don't want you to [continue] telling me how much it upset you because of what I did.
I know how much it upset you.

I value friendship above so many things. Any of you reading this know that.

I'm sick of it, though. I always analyze things. Always. I never want to hurt anyone's feelings. I tend to choose my words and actions very carefully. I don't like to see people suffer. It tears me apart. Heaven forbid that I get a wee bit selfish and insecure every once in awhile.

I'm sure the inspiration of this will read it. I hope they read, because they need to know that I AM sorry. It was an ACCIDENT. A misunderstanding. If I had known that saying nothing about you would make you hurt so badly, I would've wrote of nothing but you.

I said I was sorry and that's all I'm going to do, but I hope reading this gives you an idea of how I feel, too.

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I went through and replaced every entry that could be wrongly interpreted with " neutral " or " confused ".

I'm just so sick of not meaning anything and having people jump my throat over it.
Use some judgement.
If you can't believe I said something...chances are, it wasn't meant to be thought of in that way.

Before you run off and get upset, take a moment and confront me about it.
It might save both of us a lot of agony.

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