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Why is it that people are so obsessed over how a person looks?
I know that looking nice is well, nice, but.... If someone isn't considered attractive, that means that they're a bad person. If someone is handsome or beautiful, that means that they're a nice person.
That makes no sense at all. Maybe to some people, but not to me.
My cousin, the annoying one, and my sister both judge someone by their looks. My sister will only talk to someone if they're attractive. (Well, if she wants to get their number at least.... -_-) And my cousin is constantly consumed with how her face looks. She's only twelve and she wears full make-up everyday. Her hair has to be perfect, and if it doesn't she's always bitching about how ugly she looks. Who cares? I get incredibly annoyed when she's talking about it, and whenever she sees someone she'll always go: "Oh, they're so ugly." "Ew, looks at how fat that person is." It's just as constant as how constant she's thinking about her face. And whenever she's talking about people that she wants to date, she'll say: "He has to be cute, nice, and I want him to have money." I imagine her as a future gold-digger. Then again, I just hate her.
People get blinded by the fact that if someone is nice, they're attractive. That's not true. I've known plenty of people who are attractive and rude, and who aren't and are kind. There are people who are the other way around, but that doesn't mean just because a person acts ugly and looks the way that they act means that everyone that looks like them is the same way.
In my mind, it goes like this: "If someone is rude to me, they can go and kiss my a**. I don't care how good-looking they are. But if someone is nice to me, then it doesn't matter to me how they look." It really doesn't. Even if I do look at someone and think about how they look, it depends on how they act towards me that will shape how I think of them.
And, even though I can't date until I'm eighteen, if some guy asks me out who isn't the greatest looker I'm not going to turn them down. At least when I'm eighteen I'll do that. (Of course, I can always just be sneaky and go out on dates anyway. Probably won't do that anyway, though.)
In times like these, people are obsessed about their looks. It does feel good to look nice, but revolving your entire life around it is just stupid. If you turn someone down just because they're too chubby or skinny or their face just doesn't fit together right, it's just stupid. Stupid, stupid, stupid. If you don't even know the damn person and you ignore them just because of that, you're a stupid person!
That's all that I want to put in here, for now. Maybe I'll make a following entry later on. I dunno.
Actually, I have one last thing to put in here: Once I get older, all that I want is to be able to be with someone who'll care about me. Not about my face, but about me. As long as I can find that in someone, regardless of how they look, I'll be happy with them. It will probably be a long search until find someone like that, but I'll still look for it.
 MythicalYoko · Sat May 13, 2006 @ 06:05pm · 2 Comments |
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