Ok this might sound a little odd, but I was reading a journal someone had posted about how 'nice' guys are too lame, annoying, soft, etc.
What's wrong with being a "Nice" guy? I mean I'm not knocking down other men, but it seems that if you aren't running around knocking up women than you really aren't considered a 'man'.
I may be a bit timid, or I may seem a bit shy or quiet or maybe even a bit too huggy, but that's a part of my personality. I would think someone would love me for more than just my appearance or how I act. I mean no one's perfect, so yeah I might not be Robin Hood or the Shining Knight in White Armor, but I'm the type of tenderhearted person who'll do his best to keep his future girlfriend and wife happy.
I'll try, even though if I make her mad or annoy her, I'll try. Plus I would treat her like how she is. I don't expect my future wife/gf to be some sort of robot or cuddly pillow. There is more to a person than that.
Sure I may have some emotional issues, but I'm working on it. I may not always be confident, but sometimes being confident takes help from others. All I'm saying is that just because I'm 'Nice' doesn't mean I'm lame or a wimp that doesn't think about his future.
There is more to a person than you realize after all. Sorry if this steps on toes but I get tired of 'labeling' it's really annoying. Why can't people accept someone for who they are not what they want? It's like trying to put a sphere into a triangular hole, if you don't accept the sphere for what it is, than maybe you should look for a triangle instead and stop critisizing the sphere for what it is! xP
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