Yeah, I'm not much of a spur of the moment type of person myself, and I definitely hate it when someone is presumptuous enough to include me in on a plan that I wasn't made aware of, let alone consulted with. Fortunately I don't know any such people right now.

Oh, and about Isaac. Perhaps you ought to quit jumping from guy to guy and learn to be secure in yourself. It seems a reasonable conclusion to draw from this guy-hopping of yours is that you're insecure in some way and feel a need to be with someone. That, and perhaps you feel a need to be loved.

Well, better fix yourself before you keep getting disappointed and grow callous and cynical, or insular and aloof.