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Honestly, it doesn't seem like he'd be angry or anything if you maybe tried a few hints here and there- since it sounds like he's all for the gay thing. You could ask him what he thinks about gay rights and etc... while he's alone, usually then you'll hear "But I'm not gay or anything" Or something along those lines, if he isn't interested in guys.

But that's as far as my knowledge goes. If he's still sorta shy about it, you could just sorta do a little small talk to get him going on that topic, maybe he just needs someone to open up to him first before he says anything. If he's still uncomfortable just drop it and occasionally bring it up every once in a great while- to sorta get him warmed up to talking about it.

I hope this helps you in some way shape or form
Fenera

Lol. thanks. i know he's for gay rights, because he goes to the GSA at my school. i joined for 2 reasons A) i'm gay, B) to see him.

he's acting just ACTING all guys do.

Updattee. ok. so i went to youth group last night, which i joined because he goes there. and i walk up to see two of his friends (heather, and her sister) trying to pick each other up, then i see him. He runs off and i can't see him until i walk up more, i see he's over with jenn (his best friend) doing the same thing. well we go inside, open in prayer, and then we're informed of the scavenger hunt. well, we were split up into 2 teams, with two groups in each. i got lucky and was thrown into jenn and dj's group. <3 when we went out to go get in the car, jenn called shot gun, so dj was stuck in the back with me. so we went around collecting stuff, until this happens...

Jenn: turns aroud and looks out the back window "i think that was opel..."
TJ: snickers
DJ: turns to tj "You do NOT want to meet her!"
TJ: "I know, i've heard all about her from heather, her and cj."
Jenn: laughs "CJ is gay for DJ"
DJ: rolls eyes
Jenn: laughs harder "WAIT! that makes cj AND tj gay for dj!"
DJ: stops moving and just stares at jenn "...jenn... jsut no..."
TJ: turns red, then get mad "JENN!" smacks her over the head.
DJ: laughs "there we go."

=/ i'm tj, dj's the boy i like, and jenns the best friend. bah >_< i can't tell what he is =/ i think he might just be girly =[ or something. i mean a lot of people think he's gay, but if you ask any of his close friends they don't think so. =/ rawr. and of course jenn jsut HAD to bring the fact that i like him up >_> it's been over a year since i've fallen for him =/

at one part of the night, we picked his sister up. and me and her were chatting. dj was turned forward, and was sitting directly next to me. i looked at him... and i just wanted to kiss him >_<

u might as well just go straight up to him and ask. going crazy inside ur head over whether he is not won't really do anything, specially since u said his friends say they don't THINK so. the only way to know for sure is asking him, hard as it may be