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I can understand why you're so upset. I'm not great or anything with advice, but i just want you to know that if you have anything else you need to get off your chest, you can always PM me.

Crying is okay aswell, don't be afraid to even at school.
Sometimes life can be tough and alot of wierd things happen, but it's only because we're human.

See how the rest of this week goes. If you both need a bit of space, then use this time to have a breather.
Give us an update maybe thursday/friday on how your relationship is, hopefully things may even patch things up themselves.

I wish you the best. Things like this happen, never think you're alone.

awwh. i got a bit teary reading this. i kinda know where your coming from... other then the whole you have had a bf before =/ i haven't. nor probly ever will.

i'm a lot like you, i really like two of my close guy friends, and i think dating either would ruin our friendship if we were to have a fight. That's probly why you don't want to date him.

I feel really bad for you. i wish i could give you a hug =[ to bad you don't live in Somers Point =[

((oh god my mom and sister are pmsing. save me))

my advice, is give him some time. he is confused right now, he likes you as more then a friend, but he has his ex with the baby coming. He doesn't know what he should do, he probably thinks that if he was to date you and his ex was to have the baby, he might need to give you up to help take care of the baby. And he does not want you to get hurt. He is most likely putting space between you two so his feelings for you do not keep pouring through.

Like what Kogru said, he's probably confused.
Hopefully with a bit of space it might patch itself up, but not to worry if things dont. I'm sure you have other fabulous friends that will love you (friend to friend way) no matter what happens, and will be there to support you.

I find that talking to my older sister sometimes helps me with some of my problems, if you have an older sibling, they're always nice to talk to.
If not, our school has councellors (Sounds tacky but they're very helpful!).

I saw a concellor last year when I was having confidence problems and getting stress from the pressure of exams and stuff. But she actually helped me out.
Even just sitting there crying to someone makes me feel better, no matter who they are. They dont actually have to say anything! I feel better when i let it all out.

Hopefully by typing this thread up, it has helped you a bit.

Have you tried maybe even calling him? That way you dont have to talk face to face or even emailling him?
Just letting him know how upset (and a bit confused?) you are from this.

heart I wish you the best. Really. Life can suck sometimes.

i'm not sure this is what u wanted, but here's what i think: u r feeling sad bcs u fee u turned him down even tho he said he made the mistake. maybe he really thinks he made a mistake by kissing u. but there's also the possibility that he's just saying that out of pride, perhaps trying to convice himself that it was a mistake. my point here is: perhaps he liked u a lot, but since u turned him down hes trying to keep himself up, considering he has the pressure of having a baby with his EX. anyway, well, how old r u? and how old is he? and i also think u should give it time. he IS, after all, undergoing A LOT of pressure right now, needless to say. but u also need to sort out what u feel. this isn't all about "wait-and-see". at least i think it's not. once u have figured out how u REALLY feel about him [bcs there's the possibility that u have have fallen for him thru ur innocent interactions. i'm saying so bcs with my boyfriend, we started going out as simply friends, we REALLY had no intention of getting together. in fact, we were helping each other out with some "relationship problems" [he wanted one with this girl, so i was trying to help him with that, and i had this guy who wanted to be with me, but i didn't want to, so he was helping me with that]. anyway, point is, we started out as merely friends, but in the process...we ended up falling for each other. point being: there's a possibility u fell for him. i wouldn't know, u'd need to tell me so that i'd know. but that's what i think. anyway, once u figure out what u really feel about him, u should go up to him and tell him. it's never too late. that thought of "i should have told him more" is exactly what u should do, TELL HIM MORE. but speak with him once u have it figured out, bcs there's no point in going on to babble about something u rn't sure of and end up saying something u don't mean or never meant to say...dunno if i babbled too much and u ended up not understanding...i hope u DID understand, if not, my bad, i'll be glad to explain myself further. anyway, hope that helped. ^_^

hope it helped... i'm going through this on a lower level =/ i've gotta go update my other thing... blah. men suck...

ok...that does make it harder to explain, then. so he tried harder to have u like him...then maybe he's distancing himself now bcs he realized [one or another way] that being with u while he's gonna have a baby isn't the best option, for himself AND for the baby. so maybe now he's backing down to try and sort out how he feels, or he's doing it to try and BLOCK how he feels about u. i'm thinking there's a possibility he still likes u, but since it wouldn't be the best way to deal with the baby, the mother of the baby, etc. then he's backing down, ignoring how he feels, so he can try and sort that out. as for the trying to keep himself up, what i said is pretty much nulified by the fact that he 'chased' u [that me did whatever was possible to still have u like him even tho u'd said u wanted to be just friends]. however, he might still be trying to keep himself up, as in, trying to hold himself together while he goes trhu all the stuff he has [baby, mother of the baby, and whatever else he's going trhu]. in reference to the rest, what i meant to say was that u should sort out how u r feeling. give it some heavy thought, but don't keep ur brain in a single thing. explore other possibilities, consecuences, chances that those possibilities are true, etc. REAL HEAVY THINKING BUT WITHOUT GOING AROUND THE SAME IDEA ALL THE TIME. after u've done that, once u r sure [or at least with a better idea] of how u feel, talk to him, if that's what u wanna do. since u said u thought u should have said more, then do so, but like i said b4, do so AFTER u've given it some heavy thinking, AFTER u have it organized. heck, if it helps, imagine how the conversation would go and based on that decide what u want to tell him. that way u'll get that weight off ur chest. followed now? ^_^

smooth move romeo? JK. Well if she isn't talking to you anymore then ofcorse theres something wrong. But as long as she isn't acting too different, you have nothin to worry about.