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I'm feeling guilty because I don't have a job and my parents are having money problems. For the record I should be moved out by now. I figure I must have been a terrible person in a former life.

I'm guilty of making my ex bf's life hell, all I do is fight with him. I'm also guilty of being a spoiled brat that can't even bring herself to help her family who is in debt. Also causing so many problems for all of my friends. I'm tired of hurting people. I still love my ex, yet I nothing can be done, I've known the guy for 11 yrs, loved him for 6, dated him for 2 monthes, yet I have to go a mess his life up. I'd try to commit suicide, but I can't because of my neices and nephews. I know what it would do to them and I can't bring myself to do that.

My dog got put to sleep a few months ago...the doctor told us we did all that we could, and it would be the better thing to do...but we could have gotten the surgery for him...

... I don't know what I'm guilty for. I just am. I feel like I'm not good enough for everyone. I'm only 15 and I have to babysit my little siblings all the time. I mean all the time. And I have to be a good example for them and it's really hard because I don't have anybody to look too for help. So I have to make it up. I yell at the oldest of my younger sisters a lot and that rubs off on her and she yells at my littlest sister and that's one thing I feel guilty for. Another is that I have to keep asking for money from my parents becaues I don't have a job and they are really low on money right now. I try to make everyone happy all the time and I am so sick of having to make other people happy, becasue then I'm misreable. I can't make 4 parents, 3 younger siblings, all my friends and teachers happy. I just can't and I feel quilty because of it. All of this builds up over time and periodically I break down and scream and throw fits. My friends say my parents are robbing me of my childhood because of the babysitting and my parents think my friends don't treat me the way I should be treated. I can't do this anymore. It's too much stress and pressure resting on me.

I feel guilty for not taking better care of myself and my life. I also feel guilty for not seeking help earlier, I knew I had problems, but I just didn't want to seek help.

I feel guilty for not taking better care of my little brother too. Maybe, if I had been there for him, he might not have tried to commit suicide. Why didn't I spend time with him much more?

I feel guilty for not supporting my mother when she had hard time, I was angry at her because of her alcoholism and didn't realize it wasn't her fault.
She had had her share of problems and she just couldn't take it anymore.

I feel guilty about the fact that I had to be a dumbass and ruin my car. Also in lieu of my recent car accident, I feel stupid because I almost killed my friend in the process. Ugh. I am glad that she is okay, but still... ugh... and the fact that people have to drive me around pisses me off. I have a driver's license. I should be driving. I know that driving is a privilege, but still... it is so inconvenient to have people driving me around all of the time. I feel like their life now has to revolve around me, which is total bullshit.

I'm feeling guilty because two weeks ago I told myself I was going to get a job, and then when my anti-depressant ran out I got my fear back even though I'm taking my anxiety meds too.