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I go to a school where popularity is everything. If you don't look good, your a loser. I'm afraid that I am a loser there. People have been treating me very poorly. They've been swearing at me just for being in their presence they've been insulting me for my appearence but I can't do anything about my appearence because I was born this way. One student almost hit me on the head with a hard-covered book. I have hardly any friends and my crush hates me. I sang for the talent show and I think I made a big fool of myself. I am also new to the school this year too. And it is strange because I was very popular at my old school.

Please tell me what I should do. Please.

*waits*

who cares wat they think just try and meet somone thats in the similar position

hope it all works out for ya razz

Hm, well I was an outcast at my old school and actually the one I'm at now, but all you have to do is ignore them, your obviously above them. Popularity, has never been my strong point. But being ostrasized is.

What'cha gotta do is find people a-kin to you, they may be popular, they may not, but as long as you get along it shouldn't matter. Then once you got your friends, things should get better.

That's not very good advice, but this is coming from a guy who's sheer size keeps people from picking on him.

heart Yes, use your position as the unpopular new kid to show them all up.
Basically, act like you don't give a damn about what they think about you. Act very cold toward them, only dealing with them because you have to.
Basically, act like a self-centered jerk.

For some reason, self-important jerks seem to find themselves attracted toward the self-centered jerks.
I had a friend who was havinig trouble in his new school, so he started wearing bones in his hair, and muttering under his breath. Eventually others started to gravitate toward him, and he gave up the masquarade.

Hope this helps. Oh, and talk to your clergy.

Your problem is similar to what happened to me before. I think you should just be yourself. You shouldn't care what people think about you, especially what your crush thinks. I'm going to tell you something very private that I hope will help you feel better......Oh, what I am talking about is focused on what your crush thinks about you.

{5 years ago}
When I was new to my school I liked this guy who was popular. He is still popular now. I never stopped liking him, except for when I liked two other people this year. Anyway, he finally found out that I liked him. He said it was cool. So, now he likes me more than he used to. Plus, I'm not popular. And when you would look at the history of girls he liked, it is usually one of the girls that are popular. Since, I've been myself around him, it really made him think differently about me.

So, my point is...To never change yourself because of other people. If people change you there will never be a part of you that is you. And to change yourself for your crush will make things even worse. If your crush doesn't like you for you than that means he is not the one for you. Trust me though... he'll like you if you just be yourself.

P.S. I am sorry if this is really bad advice. But it really helped me. Plus, this is my first time giving out advice.

I was in the same position in my elementary school. People really never liked me at all, either for my appearence or I was no good at all. But now, I am in my high school and I am still an outcast but I manage to get the fact straight. No one is perfect in any sense, people like to bring people down because they are either butt ugly or realy poor and the popular think that they all that, but they are not, what so ever.

But like the others said, find someone that you can talk to, or a small group of people that are in the same spot as you are. And it's your first year to that school, give your self a chance.

... Well who cares after you get out of school it wouldn't matter anyway. (unless you are a model or something) It shouldn'tmatter too much cuz they r not confortable with themselves in a way. Oh and don't tell them that. you'll get hurt