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Okay, I just got back with my ex, Steve & he's close friends with my best friend Angela. Now Steve is the huggy touchy-feely type with his friends and he didn't end it even though we're back together. I'm worried there's something going on between them. I mean she told me she liked him in the past and he always showed signs of liking her. I don't like the way he hugs her all the time and they say "I love you" supposedly in a friend way. I'm not the kind of girl to get paranoid over every girl my boyfriend is with, I'm actually the opposite. I usually am very mellow, but something just doesn't feel right when I see them together. Angela is at his house right now and no one else is home beside them too and I wasn't invited. Is there something wrong with the picture or is it just me? Apparently he wanted to just meet up with me, but he didn't even call me, he had her tell me. I was very weirded out by that. Why wasn't I invited when I'm his girlfriend? Am I just being paranoid or do I have a right to not trust them? Should I confront him and/or her? Could someone please help me.

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its sounds like there might be something going on, but i think you should talk to them and get the whole story first, before you jump to any conclusions.

It's pretty suspicious. You should keep an eye on them.

if it doesn't feel right to you, then confront them, i mean it couldn't hurt to ask.

Dump his a**! My ex did that too, I dumped him, and I stopped talking to my supposed "friend".

Just ask. Be careful about asking, don't be too blunt or accusing or angry or anything like that. Just bring it up casually. Watch either person's reaction closely, depending on if they're together or you confronted one without the other. I would trust your boyfriend's reaction more than your friend's, but just be careful. If it's too easy to see how strong your suspicions are, he might get angry or upset, which could ruin what might actually be a sound relationship.