I would like for someone else to clean up after dinner.

Okay so I suck at cooking. I rarely cook. Usually my SIL does it, or Daniel. And I clean up after dinner. Which is fine. I don't mind cleaning up if someone else does the cooking.

BUT WHY THE ******** AM I CLEANING UP AFTER DINNER WHEN I COOK?! Seriously when I DO cook somehow I'm cleaning up as well.

And yes I have tried to just leave it to see if someone else will clean it up. Nope. I just get bitched at about it. Or if I DO do major cleaning its not good enough. So I get bitched at for cleaning and I get bitched at for not cleaning.

Granted things are a lot better in the house but this s**t is still going on and it pisses me off.

Daniel's excuse is "Oh well I was tired." or "I didn't notice."

Yup. Because washing those invisible dishes is so hard. And they must be invisible because I'm not sure how else you don't notice them.

SIL's excuse is "Oh well I was busy with the baby."

Uhm, hello? I have a baby too. AND a 4 year old AND a 2 year old. AND I watch your kids when you do errands because it's annoying trying to drag kids around.

I wish we could afford a maid. -_-