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x iSeanHirose x

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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 2:47 am

Well, there's this guy I like you see.....

And there's this problem about me....

I'm easily getting jealous of the girls around him. I want to not get jealous but it seems I can't control it. Any suggestions?

Thank you.

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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 7:33 pm

For starters, try to make friends with the guy, if you arent already. Maybe you have a lot in common.

as for the jealousy, thats extremely hard to control for a ton of people. If you notice yourself becoming jealous, you can catch yourself and say "I'm not jealous."
I know it sounds cheesy, but also, if your crush has a very close female friend, try to befriend her as well. If shes a total b***h, than ask the guy permission to kick her into next week. (... joking... ninja )

Good luck!

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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:29 am

I'd say, start by trying to become friends with him first, this way u kno if he's actually nice, instead of judging from afar, and finding out he can be a real d**k later.

about the jealousy part... not much to say.... the fact is its natural to get jealous, theres not rly much u can do about it cept try to get stuck on it if hangs out with or likes other girls, cuz u got to remember that even tho u like him, u have to respect him and his wishes too.

Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 2:02 pm

I have the same problem.
99% of the time, it's all my imagination playing tricks on me...
My mind formulates thoughts of 'he doesn't like me', and 'he's going to cheat on me'... when that's not really the case.
It got really bad at one point where my BF couldn't go study with a female classmate without me getting jealous. Then he'd get mad at me for not trusting him.

My biggest problem:
I trust my BF, but I don't know the girls he's with... so I don't trust them!

You have to get over your trust issues as well...
Get to know the guy... like what he's really like...
And get to know his friends too..
Then see if you feel you can trust him/them...

If you feel that you can, then hop on and enjoy the ride.
If not, move on! There are plenty of fish in the sea, so they say...

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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 1:38 am

Try to become friends with him.. that's a great start t helping you become less jealous of all the other girls..

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