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 Posted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:43 pm
Kay9214 Ashi_Kisaki -cracks up laughing- Forgive me. I did not mean to interrupt anything. -gives Nia the thumbs up...... turns on heels walking away as her laughter fills the room- It really bothers me. I've been becoming increasingly sensitive to this and it's seriously causing me problems.
Now.... considering we are all just people behind computer screens..... no one can come near you...... personally I think you should just let it go and ignore it. In all honesty..... you left yourself wide open there. You really have to stop taking things so personally. Just let it fall off you like rain. I don't mean to be insensitive but Nia never said anything wrong. It was the one having naughty thoughts that interpreted it wrong..... or do you not see that?
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Posted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:48 pm
Nia Phoenix Kay9214 Nia Phoenix Ashi_Kisaki -cracks up laughing- Forgive me. I did not mean to interrupt anything. -gives Nia the thumbs up...... turns on heels walking away as her laughter fills the room- *high fives* Seriously? Hey - I got a thumbs up! I can't tip Posts in a Guild thread, so ...well ...it's the least i can do wink
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Posted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:50 pm
Ashi_Kisaki Nia Phoenix Kay9214 Nia Phoenix Ashi_Kisaki -cracks up laughing- Forgive me. I did not mean to interrupt anything. -gives Nia the thumbs up...... turns on heels walking away as her laughter fills the room- *high fives* Seriously? Hey - I got a thumbs up! I can't tip Posts in a Guild thread, so ...well ...it's the least i can do wink LOL especially in this one - these guys are hilarious!
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Posted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:54 pm
Ashi_Kisaki Kay9214 Ashi_Kisaki -cracks up laughing- Forgive me. I did not mean to interrupt anything. -gives Nia the thumbs up...... turns on heels walking away as her laughter fills the room- It really bothers me. I've been becoming increasingly sensitive to this and it's seriously causing me problems.
Now.... considering we are all just people behind computer screens..... no one can come near you...... personally I think you should just let it go and ignore it. In all honesty..... you left yourself wide open there. You really have to stop taking things so personally. Just let it fall off you like rain. I don't mean to be insensitive but Nia never said anything wrong. It was the one having naughty thoughts that interpreted it wrong..... or do you not see that? Nia specifically quoted me to point out that my innocuous comment could be manipulated to sound dirty. The problem is the dozens of conversations she and I have had about how it seriously makes me uncomfortable and how she completely ignores my feelings and dismisses my boundaries. Constantly, over and over again. I'm seriously uncomfortable, and after so many times I feel extremely violated. I wanted to point that out in hopes that people can respect it and not make a spectacle out of my extreme discomfort. I am in actual phyisical pain, and I've had serious episodes with my heart over stuff like this before, and when I point out that it bothers me, people celebrate it. My head is suddenly killing me, I hurt everywhere, and I'm shaking. There's nothing I can do about it, and everyone just thinks it's funny.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 12:11 am
Kay9214 Ashi_Kisaki Kay9214 Ashi_Kisaki -cracks up laughing- Forgive me. I did not mean to interrupt anything. -gives Nia the thumbs up...... turns on heels walking away as her laughter fills the room- It really bothers me. I've been becoming increasingly sensitive to this and it's seriously causing me problems.
Now.... considering we are all just people behind computer screens..... no one can come near you...... personally I think you should just let it go and ignore it. In all honesty..... you left yourself wide open there. You really have to stop taking things so personally. Just let it fall off you like rain. I don't mean to be insensitive but Nia never said anything wrong. It was the one having naughty thoughts that interpreted it wrong..... or do you not see that? Nia specifically quoted me to point out that my innocuous comment could be manipulated to sound dirty. The problem is the dozens of conversations she and I have had about how it seriously makes me uncomfortable and how she completely ignores my feelings and dismisses my boundaries. Constantly, over and over again. Considering Nia said that she did not make a comment for said reasons, then you point out that she DID making a comment by doing so..... sadly Kay.... you are the one doing this to yourself ....sorry to say.
I'm seriously uncomfortable, and after so many times I feel extremely violated. I wanted to point that out in hopes that people can respect it and not make a spectacle out of my extreme discomfort. Kay you cannot be a victim unless you allow yourself to be one. Saying you feel extremely violated is rather over the top don't you think? I am not disputing the fact that you feel discomfort over these things. Only that your reaction to it is excessive. I am in actual phyisical pain, and I've had serious episodes with my heart over stuff like this before, and when I point out that it bothers me, people celebrate it. We are not celebrating it. I gave Nia the thumbs up because she made me laugh. Something I do very little of these days. I laugh when she flirts with me as Storm the RP Guild mule. It is her way. I for one, enjoy her bubbly ways. She should not have to change who she is for anyone. None of us should.My head is suddenly killing me, I hurt everywhere, and I'm shaking. There's nothing I can do about it, and everyone just thinks it's funny.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 8:35 am
You really don't understand the situation, so I'm not going to push the conversation.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 12:51 pm
Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 ...are you a creationist? .-. i am. aww some anonymous person *pointed violently* at me emotion_kirakira was it santa? Santa is a nonviolent person. gonk lol okay it wasn't santa
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:13 pm
tokyofirelizard Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 ...are you a creationist? .-. i am. aww some anonymous person *pointed violently* at me emotion_kirakira was it santa? Santa is a nonviolent person. gonk lol okay it wasn't santa Santa would of course not have encouraged transforming into a giant dinosaur and smashing the city. @.@
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:27 pm
Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 ...are you a creationist? .-. i am. aww some anonymous person *pointed violently* at me emotion_kirakira was it santa? Santa is a nonviolent person. gonk lol okay it wasn't santa Santa would of course not have encouraged transforming into a giant dinosaur and smashing the city. @.@ It's a fake city and I'm a fake dinosaur. Santa will live.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:37 pm
tokyofirelizard Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 tokyofirelizard Kay9214 ...are you a creationist? .-. i am. aww some anonymous person *pointed violently* at me emotion_kirakira was it santa? Santa is a nonviolent person. gonk lol okay it wasn't santa Santa would of course not have encouraged transforming into a giant dinosaur and smashing the city. @.@ It's a fake city and I'm a fake dinosaur. Santa will live. Why are you destroying a fake city? @.@
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:46 pm
Kay9214 You really don't understand the situation, so I'm not going to push the conversation.
No I will not push this conversation. I understand just fine Kay.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:49 pm
Kay9214 Why are you destroying a fake city? @.@
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:59 pm
Ashi_Kisaki Kay9214 You really don't understand the situation, so I'm not going to push the conversation.
No I will not push this conversation. I understand just fine Kay. The problem is the dozen conversations with her that I mentioned during which we've talked about how she's made me uncomfortable, at least some of which including her promising not to continue to do so. I don't know how many times I have to be lied for it to be for it to be an 'real' issue.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 4:00 pm
Ashi_Kisaki Kay9214 Why are you destroying a fake city? @.@ We don't know that she's not destroying a fake city? If you smash a model (etc), it's still smashed. .-. Just because it isn't a real city doesn't mean it can't be destroyed.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 4:12 pm
Kay9214 Ashi_Kisaki Kay9214 You really don't understand the situation, so I'm not going to push the conversation.
No I will not push this conversation. I understand just fine Kay. The problem is the dozen conversations with her that I mentioned during which we've talked about how she's made me uncomfortable, at least some of which including her promising not to continue to do so. I don't know how many times I have to be lied for it to be for it to be an 'real' issue.
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