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I agree. It seems to me too that he just wants attention, but of course, it could be about a lack of courage to carry on with his plans.

But seriously, people who go around shouting about their suicidal plans are surely after the attention, which shows that something is wrong with the person. Maybe they feel they are still just children left alone and want someone to watch over them. People are forced to grow up so quickly nowadays, they never have enough time to have a childhood, which will cost them and the society much more later than would have been necessary.

well i am Christian, and my life is terrible, ive contempulated suicide many times, but the same question comes back to me would i go to hell?, cause i know none would miss me, and if they would they should show it

the question is if u want to do it y havent u, whats stoping u, not that im saying u should, but y

why, what happened to u that makes life unbareable

as long as the burdens i carry are mine, ill try to live on

I agree with you, Yea, everyone has problems, and seriously, if people want to commit suicide, they dont TELL people. They just plan it, and do it, without saying a word to anyone. The people who say, i want to commit suicide, they're reaching out to you. If they didn't want help, they wouldn't say anything and just go right ahead and do it. They WANT to be discouraged, and told that they're needed, wanted, ect. Seriously, though, I'm not against suicide, i don't think its wrong, but if a friend of mine was suicidal, i would do my best and give it my all to discourage them.

Seriously, though, EVERYONE has their own problems. Some are worse, others not as bad... if you ask ANYONE they will most likely complain bout multiple things. And seriously, people who want to kill themselves because of pressure at work, school, they're lonely, are pitiful in my opinion. There are people out there, families with abusive parents, kids and adults starving, missing body parts and organs, homeless people, illegal immigrants living in an unwanted place, kids and adults with disabilities, both mental and physical, maybe a combination of thoes problems. These people out there, they're still living... In fact, im involved in a couple of thoes situations. I'm not suicidal. If u just sit around, mope, do NOTHING to make urself feel better, life WILL suck, and you WILL not want to live on; so... change that. Change ur life, make the best of it, dont mope about ur problems. And yes, I am aware that depression can not be helped in most cases, and you don't want to do anything, you just need to be alone, cry, feel sorry for yourself, or whatever it is u need to do when u feel depressed. I KNOW that. And seriously, It really sucks that people would kill themselves becuase of little things that seem huge to them. Such as a teen killing themselves because they're not accepted in school, or, have no friends.

Suicide is a friggen touchy subject for me. Seriously, whenever someone mentions suicide, I get into a friggen conversation, and don't shut up until im exausted.

A person I know seriously has a ******** up life. Her sister is disabled, has a father who's abusive, and a*****e, she's not wanted here, so that just jepordises her chances at ANYTHING she wants to do. Every time, after trying so hard and putting up with everyone's crap, she thinks everything's fine, then falls deep down into s**t and has to repeat the cycle. EVERY time there's something stopping her from being happy. As if there's a constant reminder her life is ******** up. And seriously, i admire her, becuase even with all her problems, she is alive and well, and is striving to BECOME someone. Sure, she breaks down sometimes, and thinks about sucide, but every time she tells me there's too much to live for. If there were more people like her, there would be a less percentage of commited suicide and suicide attemps.

i must tell everyone here who reads this forum to READ THIS!!!!!!
i myself have been so down i wanted to commit suicide.
but then i met this boy over the phone. his name was mario.
a friend of mine introdused us in order to get him to like me, cause he liked shy girls. anyways this boy had been causeing my friend missery, so she wanted to break his heart, but she told me this after we met.
My friend, she, she was going throuhg a hard time and mario made her talk with him, threatening his life if she didnt, so she talked. all he would ever tell her of was his missery, and this only added to hers.
getting back to the sory of us two meeting, when i first talked to this guy, his first immpression came at me as lonley, and extreamly perverted. these kind of things scare me, since it just does, for some reason... anyway, we talked for about three hours over the phone, then i had to go. or at least thats what i told him. i call up my friend and told her what he said to me and she was so angry, for what he had told me, not only because of what he said, the other was because he told her the same thing. thats when she told me of her plans of getting this guy, but i reluctantly refused.
i thought it was over but it wasnt, the guy had caller i.d., so he called me non stop, and i answered, trying to make him feel beter. then i heared my friend was in the hospital, why?, because Mario had made her so depressed, she became vert ill. So mario called me, telling me how bad he felt, then he started talking about suicide, when my cell phone turned itself off.
no he didnt commit suicede, when i turned it back on my cell had a new message saying i was making him sad. so i told him about my cell problem, then we called a night.
i ignored his calls and texed mssages. he called me by the hour non stop.
(this is durring summer vacation) He was driving me insane, cause i still read his messages but not repleyed, he made me give up my dream of becoming a psycologist , he was that depressing.
to cut to the chase, my friend is now out of the hospital, so he starts calling her again, but her # was now changed, so he came back to me.
he called me at 11 pm, i for some reason was feeling bad, so i answered, we talked till 12, and i finally saw a good side to him, at the end of our conversation, he made a turn for the worse, he told me i was his last chance, he said if i became his girlfriend, everything will be good, if i said no bad things will happen. so we hung up, and i told him id call him tomorrow.
but i simply couldnt call him, so i text him saying that i didnt want to be his girlfriend, i mean it was too soon, ive known him for 2 weeks now, and that id rather be friends. ( i couldnt even believe i told him i wanted to be his friend)
he text me back saying goodbye, and not to worry. after that, i started to punish myself, by punching, among other ways i refuse to say. but soon he started texting me again, calling me a lier, i was a bad person, asking if i had told on someone(him), and i couldnt eat for another week, this guy told me he was going to kill himself, and now hes calling me a bad person.
The moral of this, is no suicide is not selfish, but it kills more than it helps, so plez no one do it, this guy killed me inside its been monthes and i still am not over it. everyother week or so i look back on the texts, i just couldnt delete them, all i could do is look. mario is stil alive, but he was only feeling so bad for himself, he is a homicidal talker.