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Wow....

Well, tell the guy for crying out loud. build up the courage and tell him stright out. Yell it if you have to. If he feels the same then he'll accept your feelings.

For the mustering up the courage part, just keep thinking how it might be if you don't tell him. You never know what will happen if you tell him, but you do know what will not happen if you don't.

Well now dearie, this is when you ask yourself, "Do I honestly love him as much as I think I do?"

It might also be that you love him as a dear dear and irreplacable friend, but not as an intmate partner(at a lack of better words sorry if that phrase offends you).

I am going through that myself at the moment, so I know how it is.

Just keep your head high, stand strong, and belive in yourself.

I hope someone's on that can help me...........

My boyfriend is in south florida for a job that lasts for about five days. Anyways,his boss took him to a stip club. He told me that it would probably happen- I didn't like it, but I could handle it because he'd be going to try to get him ahead at work. What I didn't think about was the touching. It's not legal to touch, but I know it happens.
One of the girls took a dollar bill, licked it, stuck it to his forehead and took it off with her breasts.

I'm upset about it. My thoughts are that when you're in a serious relationship with someone, it's okay to look, but not to touch. I feel that sexual touching should be confined to the relationship. It's respectful, but not only that, you can get diseases from saliva and things of that nature.
Am I wrong for thinking this? Should I just get over it, or do I have a reason to feel upset? burning_eyes

He feels bad about making me cry....... I feel bad about not considering the touching part and talking to him about it. What should I do?

okie dokie

It seems that your boyfriend basically "had" to go in order to get/keep the job, so that's sorta understandable. He didn't really touch the girl, she touched him, so you should be really mad at the girl and hunt her down and punch her jk but seriously if he said he didn't like it then trust him. Last of all he told you. That's the MAIN part to this whole story. If he didn't TRULY love you, he wouldn't have told you. It seems to me that all of this is no big deal and that he truly loves you. Just tell him it better not happen again and kiss and make up lol ^-^

Tell me about it. I LOOOOOVED this boy, but didn't see it, so when he asked me out (I had a boyfriend at the time) I said no cause duh I had a boyfriend. Then he got a girlfriend and then I started to notice how much I REALLLLLLY liked him, but you have to remember to truly love someone means that sometimes you may have to just let them go. If you truly love someone it makes you happy just to see them happy, so even though he's not mine, I'm happy that he's happy with his girlfriend.