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 Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 12:39 pm
K1T3 DON'T GET PULLED INTO A HORRIFYING LOVE TRIANGLE DUMP TEH b*****d. IF HE LOVES YOU THEN HE SHOULDN'T BE W/ HIS EX WHO'S PREGANANT. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? HE'S A PLAYA. AND HE MIGHT KNOCK U UP AND HE'LL HAVE A MISTRESS WHILE U'RE HAVING A BABY. CATCH MY DRIFT GIRL? I agree with you a little bit. But NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT OK!! IF THEY WERE NO WOMEN WOULD EVER HAVE KIDS AGAIN! THEN THE WORLD WOULD DIE. Not all men are, how can I put this, bastards.
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 12:44 pm
My words to you are don't have sex till you are emotionally and responsibly ready for taking care a child. If he wants to have sex ask him "Are you ready to be a father? Will you take care of this child?" If he says yes and you are having second thoughts about having a child say no. If he hesitates then girl don't even give him a second! You gotta dump his a** then.
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 12:47 pm
Faerie Dreams  hAppY
@ zeeko - when we're together what's it like? hmm...hard to describe, we only hang out once ever few weeks, other than that we talk either online or on the phone a lot, well when we hang out I have a lot of fun with him, and he like tries to make me feel cared for by hugging me and telling me I am beautiful, etc...and when we kiss he likes to point out to me that I tremble/shake a little, ha ha, I don't know what that could mean...and when I talk to him, I could seriously talk to him for hours about the most pointless thing and he will actually sound interested even though I know he isn't, ha ha
@ KIT3 - no love triangle, you didn't read it correctly...just me and him, and while the pregnant ex girlfriend thing bothers me, and he knows it does, I don't judge him by it, cause think about it, millions..wait billions, of teenagers have sex all the time, him and her were just a bit more...unfortunate than others, so I don't judge him by that cause he really is very sweet and not a bad person SmILe Unfortunate then others. You must be kidding me. How many teenage girls have dropped out of school because they are pregnant. THOUSANDS. JUst don't be stupid and have sex ok?! Please read the comment above this. Thanks
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 12:49 pm
Faerie Dreams fairywaif I think you do love him and there's nothing wrong with being unable to say it. You sound like you love him a lot but are just scared to admit it. You don't have to say it in words though. (If you're that kind of girl) Try to find a way to tell him eventually or he may think that your guys relationship is one-sided. smile
well...I think he pretty much gets how I feel, cause when he asks me how I feel about him and I say "I don't know..." he will usually respond saying something like, "I think you love me" "well, if you didn't love me why else would you make out with me" "I am pretty sure you love me" but I think if I don't like directly let him know how I feel then he'll give up on me, and it's strange, cause we will never be more than friends...but then again I also don't want him to get back with his girlfriend, or anything like that, maybe it's selfish of me, but if that happens then I don't know...things between me and him couldn't be the same
I want to just tell him "I love you and I want to be more than friends, I don't care about the problems..." but I can't say that either...cause we can't be more than friends, ever, ha ha
SmILe If a boy said that to me "I think you love me" "well, if you didn't love me why else would you make out with me" I'd slap him. You don't have to love someone to make out with them.
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Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 12:52 pm
Kogru Faerie Dreams hAppY
so...the other day I was at my closest guy friends house, we were in his room, in the dark, cuddling/kissing and stuff cause we have this strange friends with benefits thing going on, because we can never be together as more than friends for these three reasons 1. he ex is going to have his child soon 2. my friends don't like him 3. my mom would never let me date him
now we were laying in his bed, in the dark, just cuddling and talking for a long while, and at one point he pulled me closer to him and whispered in my ear, (exact wording, cause I remember it clearly..) "I don't know how you feel, but I kinda love you" now for the longest time I have had feelings for him, but have tried to ignore them cause I know we can't be more than friends, and I know if we ever are I'll just end up getting hurt, but when he said that, I just wanted to say back "I love you too" but I couldn't, and I just said nothing...
now the problem pretty much is, I do really really really like him, but I don't want to, I just want to be friends, and only think of him as a friend, and he will randomly ask me how I feel about him, and how he thinks I love him, and I kinda do, but I don't want to admit it, to anyone, especially him, because if I admit it then I am pretty much submitting myself to get hurt again, and yeah, but I feel bad not telling him how I feel
so what do I do? tell him how I feel, or keep it to myself?
he's told me how he feels tons of times, so the problem is not in not knowing how he feels...the problem is how I can't bring myself to admit my feelings... gonk
even in admitting my feelings, we can't be together, no matter what, so yeah...
before he has said stuff before like "you know you love me" and I still can't just admit it and say "yes" I usually just say "sure" in a slightly sarcastic tone...
blah...help please?
edit - he's 18 & I'm 16 3nodding his birthday is in June and mine is in September, so it's not as large of a difference as it seems...
UPDATE- Today (July 4th) he called to tell me he got in a car accident...not a real bad one...he's perfectly fine..but, could it be a sign or something for me to tell him before it's too late...? SmILe Okay, so the other day (the 21st of July) he snuck over my house at night again, we were at the end of my driveway, and it was really late, like after midnight, and yeah, he came over around...11, and left around 1:30, so we were talking, he kissed me a few times, and at one point, we were sitting on the ground, and I was sitting on his lap, and I was thinking, and I said to him "I'm stupid" and he was like..."why?" and I said "cause I am" and he said "why?" and I was like "because...I love you" and his response was "well, then I guess I'm stupid too" obviously meaning that he loves me too it was kinda cute I guess...but yeah....now I am pretty much scared...I don't know why, or of what exactly, I'm just scared of getting hurt...I think... help me please? awh. cute. i say try it out. and if he hurts you, hire an assassin and kil him... i mean smack him <3 i really can only say try it, because i don't ahve enough info <3 If I was in her position that assassin would be my dad. But that is heck funny though.
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