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 Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:27 pm
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:37 pm
 PROS
- Apartment is at a great location
- Friend of a friend
- Cat and dog included
- Great rent price
- Got good vibes from them when meeting during apartment viewing
- Shares similar interests? (Or was that the girlfriend?)
CONS
- Practically a stranger to me (only met briefly twice)
- I haven't officially looked at other apartments in person for my own personal living situations
- Too soon to be moving out
- No time to pack
- Sharing an apartment with someone rather than having my own personal space
- They're a guy, which I normally tend to have reservations about (because of various reasons)
- From FB, we look like totally different individuals... so I don't know how many of "similar interests" we're talking about.
- Not how I envisoned moving out
- Parents didn't get to be part of the process
- Was I being influenced by my friends to make such a rash decision rather than sticking with my initial decision of waiting a week or two to think about?
- Felt a bit weird about the girlfriend and kid being there
- Not really gaining anything space wise with this particular layout - in fact... I'm probably losing space
- Will have to try meshing my apartment designing around his
- He's sort of taken over a majority of the apartment, so it'll be hard to know how much he'll be clearing out to make room for me
- Not enough time to brainstorm on how I want my room to look... or where I want to store stuff.
- Not enough time to know what I'm taking with me or keeping in "storage" here at home.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:38 pm
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:42 pm
*looks at list she made* Bloody hell... this is exactly what I needed to do. This is what I WANTED to do. But instead the heat of the moment... and maybe friend influence made me throw my entire guidelines out the door. Maybe I was just trying to make them happy... instead of thinking about who I should really be making happy - ME.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:45 pm
Ugh! I can't stand this anymore. There's no way I'm going to go through the rest of the month like this stressing out what to do. If I'm already having second thoughts, then it's not meant to be.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:51 pm
Alright. I'm doing it. I'm letting my friend know of my feelings. We'll see what she says.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 9:54 pm
I haven't even received a response from her yet... but I already feel this enormous weight lifted off my shoulders. Like I can finally relax.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 10:15 pm
She responded and thankfully she's going to have her husband do the reveal of my decision to the guy, rather than me having to do it. I know it's a bit awkward having this whole middle man thing... but honestly, I feel relieved she said she would have him do it than have me do it.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 10:19 pm
I also sent an e-mail to my Dad (really it's a message for both of my parents) informing him (them) of my decision. With my work schedule the next couple days, I probably won't be able to talk about it with them properly until Friday. This way is just better for me to get the thoughts out of my head and out onto something (especially with it being such an emotionally charged ordeal)... and help relieve everyone's thoughts and feelings about things.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 10:21 pm
*starts pulling all of her action and anime figures back out of their boxes* This was the first things I started packing when I still was intent on the idea of moving in to the place. Now that I've made my decision that I'm not going anywhere anytime soon, I can bring these lovelies back out. Because honestly, my room looks weird not having them up.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 11:07 pm
You have no idea how much of a relief it is to stop stressing over something so major like that.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2019 11:09 pm
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Posted: Fri May 10, 2019 3:51 pm
I wish I didn't have to work today, so I could enjoy the nice weather we're having right now. sad
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Posted: Fri May 10, 2019 3:53 pm
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Posted: Fri May 10, 2019 3:56 pm
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