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 Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:36 pm
Yep! That's why when a day goes wrong, I just retreat. Go read a good book. Then, when I come back into the world I'm ready to take it on with a good attitude.
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 5:28 pm
wow i need to check this thread more often. good books are always good to have in school 3nodding but im homeschooled
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 5:37 pm
Lol when I have a bad day I just come onto Gaia and talk to you guys XD
And hello again Sabrina (is that correct?)
What grade would you be in by the way?
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 7:51 pm
YAY! Welcome back to the chat Sabrina ^_^
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 7:55 am
Hmmm
RANDOM SUBJECT!!!
What do you guys do when you're frustrated? The bad things (like pulling out your hair or crying) and the good (listening to music)
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 2:37 pm
I have three main stages of dealing with frustration.
1) Go read a book & listen to music.
2) Silent screaming. That actually hurts the throat though.
3) Flat-out scream & crying fit with anyone who has irritated me in the last five minutes.
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 3:20 pm
i have some odd stages of frustration
1) i listen to music or read
2) i growl
3) i craft
4) i have an anxiety attack ((those are bad... i could literally die from them if i am not careful as it raises my blood pressure and heart rate dangerously high... so i try and avoid these))
i try to do the first three to stop or get over the anxiety attacks
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 7:35 pm
yes sabrina is right. thank you guys^^ id be in the 10th grade but ill graduate in 2010. i usually do one of the following:
count inside my head, bite myself, bite someone else, or scream outloud.
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 4:04 pm
It all depends I guess... I listen to music or play my piano if I'm at home. Sometimes I get real nasty and lash out at the one who got me upset.
I scream yell and curse mentally a lot.
If I'm really really really upset after those stages, I'll either break down or shut-down. If that makes any sense at all.
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 4:47 pm
It makes sense Lenelee ^^
And for me I guess...
1) If it's my brother I leave the room and go to my room, close the door and ignore everything and just lay there on my bed cursing at everyone mentally
2) I talk to my friends
3) I cry (hasn't happened for a while now thank goodness)
and the last one is a bit weird 0_o
before when I had my first major crush, he like absolutely destroyed me and then whenever I would talk to him over AIM I'd start to shake and my teeth would chatter.
The last time that happened it was when my ex-fiancee broke up with me the second time I think... either that or when he went out with that girl near the 4th of July.... I just know it had something to do with William.
Any ideas what the last thing is that happens when I'm angry?
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Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 1:45 pm
When I'm irritated I first go for a cigarette. By the time I'm done with it, I'm usually ok again. I'm decently good at letting things go. If I am still aggravated I attempt to retreat for some solitude, on the computer or with a book. Music helps. If the object of my frustration pursues me, I then get upset probably and then we have an argument. *sigh*
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Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:14 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 3:46 pm
Those are awesome avatars!
You can always put it on the front page and we can help you with em ^^
and I totally forgot but, what grade are you in Shadow? Somehow I feel like you're a senior.
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Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 10:15 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 7:10 pm
Sweet new avvys. I like the first one best mrgreen
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