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K1T3

PostPosted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 10:12 pm


i know this girl 4 5 years and i've liked her for about 2. i recently gave her a kiss on teh lips like a peck. she was surprised but didn't jump back at all she just asked " what was that for?" i replied " because i like you smile " " oo *blushes* i i'm flattered!" after that she had to go. was this a bad move?
PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 4:14 am


Honestly its kind of hard to tell. I am sorry that this probably isn't helping but if you want something to happen just ask.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 6:00 am


hmmm......
I don't know...
sometimes it can be a bad thing, sometimes it can be a good thing
sometimes it can ******** up a friendship
and sometimes it can make you closer

it just kinda depends

EDIT- just to add on a story of experience, I have only kissed 2 guys that I was not dating
1. truth or dare, we weren't close in the first place, so it didn't mess up anything
2. I went to the movies with one of my friends last week, and he kissed me, and it wasn't just a little peck like you did, this was an actual kiss (not making out though) cause I kissed back, now I won't lie...that made things a little odd between us for a little bit, but now everything is normal -squeeee-

so I know my experiences don't help much, but considering after you said you liked her and stuff, then everything should be okay, at the least it will be awkward for a day or two, then things will be okay 3nodding
PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 6:02 am


She didn't get angry, shocked, sad whatever, so I think it's good.

Dominique Devlin


Cri-chi

PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 7:11 am


I agree with Dominique Devlin.

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She didn't get angry, shocked, sad whatever, so I think it's good.


Ask her about how she feels when you next see her, you might be surprised.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 4:18 pm


lol that would be next monday lol. i didn't see ehr today cuz of meetings w/ the vice principal. don't worry nothing bad. but during break or lunch she wasn't around. looked as if her friend was searching for me.

K1T3


Cri-chi

PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 9:53 pm


Maybe she's a bit embarassed, most of the time that's girl language for "I like you too" sorta thing.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 10:15 pm


i hope so.

K1T3


Cri-chi

PostPosted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 4:05 am


Usually, if she doesn't like you back, she would've told you, or told a friend to.
Or even told you over the internet etc.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 12:36 pm


Do u have any hints that she likes u? Does she flirt w/ u or sumthing?
Mayb she was just supprised because she doesn't want 2 ruin ur friendship if u've known her 4 so long >///<

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K1T3

PostPosted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:39 pm


she's always been holding my hand letting me hold her. kissing her on teh cheek. when i asked her out she said she wasn't ready but she wanted to.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 12:03 pm


it's a good thing then. like it has been said by others, it's a good thing she didn't get mad. plus, u said she wanted to, tho she didn't feel ready. that can be both a good thing and a bad thing. bad bcs she seems confused as to what she wants, good bcs she said she wanted to, so obviously she;s not mad or anything of the sort

Sotur


K1T3

PostPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 8:51 pm


*sigh* i just talked to ehr and her answer was.... no. she doesn't like me that way. never did.
PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 6:31 pm


K1T3
*sigh* i just talked to ehr and her answer was.... no. she doesn't like me that way. never did.

aw....better luck next time, right? biggrin

KristinaBe

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