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Well, I know I'm going to die eventually. I could die right now, or 20 years from now. All you have to do is live your life, ignoring the cold, vice-like grip of Death.

I fear death also, but I don't make something of it. I just act normal, and be happy. It's just like doing something you love. You get so worked into it, that you never wanna stop doing it.

Like, I love to have fun. Even if for a few minutes, or for a few hours, I wanna always have fun. It's something I love. Now, think about your boyfriend. Why don't you have fun with him more often? It will straddle your mind away from death.

But, if you become depressed, and think about death again, tell yourself this. "I'm not afraid of Death. No matter when it shall come, I shall never be afraid of my own death. I will stand proudly and fearlessly, and never let death scare me again."

But, that doesn't mean you should kill yourself when saying that. It's only meant for when you are scared. Thank you for allowing me to speak.

Life is hard to live, but death just seems terrifying. No one knows what happens after just the here and now. I think that is what makes death so terrible to look at. twisted

Don't worry about it. Death is part of life. Try to keep yourself busy with other stuff.

I don't fear death, death is what gives life meaning, gives it value. Where ever you go the value of something is determined by it's rarity, if anyone could just pick up diamonds off the street they'd no longer be valued. Similarly if life didn't end it wouldn't have any value.

Pain and suffering are inevitable in our lives, but misery is optional, so choose not to be afraid and miserable and instead just try to enjoy it's pleasures. You're family and friends will die, which is just motivation to enjoy their company now while you can and to fill yourself with as many happy memories as you can.

Someone once said that so long as you are remembered with love you are never truely dead smile

I'm getting sentamental in my old age but I hope this helps

The fear some people have of death can be rational, but at the same time it can also be irrational. Death is inevitable so fearing it is kind of pointless.

Everyone hurts when they lose a loved one and the process of going through that stage can hold such pain that you just feel like putting a knife through your heart to end it, but this is a part of life's process and we can't do anything to avoid it.

Endless worrying isn't going to make death go away, it just takes up effort when you can easily turn your attention elsewhere. Life is so much better when you do productive things. So try to live a fulfilling life and dont' excessively worry about the end. Look at it like a period of rest after a long while of labour.

That's rather morbid.

But what you have is a case of Necrophobia, fear of death.
There are a lot of things in life that you have to face even if you're afraid of it.

I don't believe in 'death' but in 'rebirth'
So that's makes me happy sometimes.

You can die in a few decades from natural causes.
Or you can live forever until the sun blows up.

I have the same problem as you.
But I'm afraid of aging.


You have to live life.
After all.
That's what separates 'living oraganisms' from 'those who live'

enjoy what you have while you have it, death should not be feared, it is going to happen to all of us in one form or another