Background:
In the summer, my best friend was dumped by this really cool guy that she was dating. He's awesome, and they were still friends afterwords, even though she was hurt. I dated the same best friend a few years ago, though our relationship was a bit rocky. I still really like her, so I always think of her first.
So, later on (before school started up again), her ex-boyfriend asked me out. I denied, because I think it's wrong to go out with a friend's ex, unless she says it's alright and there's no problem whatsoever.
He asked me out again. My friend said that everything was perfectly fine and she didn't mind.
So, I said yes. And I was extremely happy with him.
Then she started to ignore me. I can't stand it when she ignores me for even an hour. So, I told her that I'd break up with him, and she started to say how she could go out with me again if I did so.
Of course, I was giddy and excited, ready for a relationship with her. So, I broke up with him.
Then I went back to tell her, and she said she "wasn't going to date anyone for a while" (even though she went out with some guy at her school.)
(I go to different High Schools than the two of them.)
Problem:
He still likes me, I still like him, but I love her.
Should I go out with him because I'm happy with him, or wait for her because I absolutely love her?
Or should I just quit dating anyone for a while (like I'm doing now)?
I get depressed when I'm not with her, but I get depressed with I'm with him because she won't talk to me...
(sorry for the long post.)
In the summer, my best friend was dumped by this really cool guy that she was dating. He's awesome, and they were still friends afterwords, even though she was hurt. I dated the same best friend a few years ago, though our relationship was a bit rocky. I still really like her, so I always think of her first.
So, later on (before school started up again), her ex-boyfriend asked me out. I denied, because I think it's wrong to go out with a friend's ex, unless she says it's alright and there's no problem whatsoever.
He asked me out again. My friend said that everything was perfectly fine and she didn't mind.
So, I said yes. And I was extremely happy with him.
Then she started to ignore me. I can't stand it when she ignores me for even an hour. So, I told her that I'd break up with him, and she started to say how she could go out with me again if I did so.
Of course, I was giddy and excited, ready for a relationship with her. So, I broke up with him.
Then I went back to tell her, and she said she "wasn't going to date anyone for a while" (even though she went out with some guy at her school.)
(I go to different High Schools than the two of them.)
Problem:
He still likes me, I still like him, but I love her.
Should I go out with him because I'm happy with him, or wait for her because I absolutely love her?
Or should I just quit dating anyone for a while (like I'm doing now)?
I get depressed when I'm not with her, but I get depressed with I'm with him because she won't talk to me...
(sorry for the long post.)
