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Oh, I'm sorry! ...Well, I'm not quite an expert, but it could be one of two things:
First, you may be right in that you might never really liked her or fell out of love with her...
Or, the second option which may hurt a bit, sorry...If it just happened, then you might just be in shock of it and it may not have fully sunken in yet...
I'm sorry, again...but you know, from how you sound, maybe it happened for the best! Besides, anyone who cops out by writing a letter or sending someone else to give an important message like that is a real coward, right?

Yea probley right I don't thing I liked her that much when I was going out with her. But hey she was nice and pretty so thats why I stay. Or it could be that I like some one else.

Well, if you like someone else, then you should persue them; full speed ahead! Actually, it's kind of ironic that I'm saying that since I didn't do that myself...At any rate, you should definitely go after whoever that "someone else" might be. Don't waste your time on the past! (Or past girlfriends) It only drags you down!

Sounds good! ...In fact, maybe subconsciously, you didn't want to keep dating your ex and were perfectly fine when you two broke up because you had your eye on another girl. Possible, no?

dude get over it so she broke up with u through a letter it could be for any reason she may not have been able to bring herself to hurt u straight to ur face u ever thought about that god i can't stand ignorance and u r being extremely ignorant im sorry if im beeing offensive but seriously dude u should not get mad over something as small as how the chick broke up with u

glad i could be of assistance

It's probably because she wrote it on a Note. I have this happen before. When someone break's up with you over a note, because they're not telling you themselves (AKA you can't hear they're voice e.g on the phone or in front of your face) It doesn't feel like it's true. ''Could someone else have written it? Is she playing around??'' You sit there thinking to yourself. Your body goes into a state of shock and because your heart love's her so much it goes numb and your body just freezes. It's like when someone die's, you don't cry straight away because it take's time to sink in. Also, the reason you are so mad is because you don't understand why. You can't figure it out and you make yourself go insane till you do. I did and to tell you the truth after a week or two it really hurt's but you'll feel better in time. I mean, if you didn't love her then why are you so mad? But at the end of the day it's easier for her. My ex turned round to me and said ''If I said it to your face then I wouldn't have said it at all.'' It's because she has some feeling's for you and she didn't want to see you physically upset. Otherwise she would have felt bad and taken you back and she would have been back at square one. You must have noticed her acting strange for the while that she was thinking about it. Unless you physically didn't want to realise it. At least you know now how she really felt. If you don't understand her feeling's then ask her yourself because you'll never get a true answer from anyone about how she feel's but her.


I hope that, that ^ helped you Even a little bit x