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Hi there! I'm sorry to bother you, but there's been something I've been wondering about for a while now that I need somebody's opinion on. Please, I know this is long, but I really need someone's help.
So, I've liked this guy since we were kids off and on, but more often than not...I'm a junior now so...it's been a while...I...just don't know what to do anymore...We both liked each other at the same time...except we're both too shy...Two years ago we were so close...we acted like a couple so much that a bunch of my friends would just giggle and bother me about it later when they thought that we did something adorable...We were so happy...But then I ruined it...didn't I?...At the end of 9th grade, we both were positive that we liked each other back very deeply. Both of us had friends backing us up, but...of course, neither one of us could do it. Eventually, I accepted that I was a coward and (Here's the mistake part!) asked my best friend to tell him how I felt for me. I wish I didn't do that...he got mad about that because he wanted one of us to confess to the other; not their best friend.
So, when I personally asked him to wait so I could tell him on the last day of school...he shook his head and said "I have a bus to catch..." That left me devastated...The following year, when we were sophomores, he tried just talking with me a couple of times early in the year, but he quickly stopped. Ever since then, when we pass each other in the halls, we make eye contact often, but quickly look away. And, even now, whenever we pass each other in the halls often enough, eventually, he takes a different route, as to avoid me, maybe? I'm not sure, but I get this weird feeling like he always stares at me when he sees me...Maybe I'm delusional...but I don't know...I need a little help, please...

This is what I need help with; Is he still mad? Does he still like me? Or is it all just a big coincidence? I don't know if I still like him, but I think that a part of me always will have an interest in him...I'm just so confused!

I totally understand how you feel! It sounds like you really like this guy. You can either go on like this, going crazy wondering if anything is ever going to happen. Or you can do what so many of us are scared to do...TAKE THE PLUNGE! Find him and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't like you anymore his loss. But at least it's no longer above your head and you can move on! And if he does care, Yay! I hope you find happiness ^_^ either way. Good luck! Hope this helped. biggrin

Dr. Diamonds here to help!

First let me start off by saying that you are not imagining things because it's around a 90% chance he actually is looking at you secretly. Thinking if he should talk to you? What would he say? Would it be awkward? Would it bring back old memories? Will it leave me scarred? Do I still like her? And hundreds of other things that race into a guys head.

You see what you have to do is corner him, not before a class and NOT when anyone is around. DO NOT go to his house by any means because that shows you are desparate, and desparate people don't make good future girlfriends.

You need to blurt it out, not too quick, not too dramatic. Guys hate drama. But you need to seem like it has been on your mind for years, which it has. You need to say, exact words. I was a coward! Is that what you wanted to hear?Huh?! Is it?! I couldn't bring myself up to telling you face to face! I liked you too much. And..and I never thought it would ruin our friendship, relationship, or whatever we had!

This is of course if you still like him. If you don't however MOVE ON!

So you like him, right? Then don't rush it. Get to know him again. See if his interests and yours are still the same and maybe you'll find yourself falling for him even more and vice versa. You guys were friends, so what's to stop you being friends now? He is probably ignoring you because he's either shy and feels awkward about the situation as well, or he truly is still mad at you which I think is very unlikely.

Good luck^^

You just need to talk to him. Forget about any sort of plan or anything like that, just do it. Planning it out will only make you nervous about it and you'll probably talk yourself out of doing it in the end. You just need to walk up to him one day, catch him by surprise, and tell him "I want to talk with you." Then just lay it all out, let it out and let it go. How else could you do it?

I'm sorry but that's a stupid reason for him to be mad at you. At least you TRIED to do it by sending someone to say it for you. He would have probably been quiet forever. If he's still mad let him be he's acting like a little kid.
p.s stop apologizing XD you did nothing wrong. one page is better than one sentence.

Ma'amselle, don't get caught up in the teenage politics of boyfriend-girlfriend crud. For your own sake.
Hey, if you find a good guy, then that's cool. But don't go chasing guys, eh? (I am a guy, by the way.) Chances are the feelings you have COULD very well just pass away. Save yourself some trouble, aye???
Good luck out there!
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