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 Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:11 pm
I am not sure how to word this. I have had a girl on this site ask me out and i know her in real life. I value my friendship with her and am not sure how to respond to her request. I have been on several dates but have had to cut several of them short due to the fact when i am not on duty as a medic i am almost always on call. A couple of the girls asked to go on the run with me but i couldn't allow them due to policies and liability issues where i work. Any advice here would be of great help!
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:15 pm
Ssgt_Alex I am not sure how to word this. I have had a girl on this site ask me out and i know her in real life. I value my friendship with her and am not sure how to respond to her request. I have been on several dates but have had to cut several of them short due to the fact when i am not on duty as a medic i am almost always on call. A couple of the girls asked to go on the run with me but i couldn't allow them due to policies and liability issues where i work. Any advice here would be of great help!
So I guess you could tell your friend you'd like to be friends, and have her know about your job. Sorry if I wasn't much help. n_n;
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:22 pm
minus infinity Ssgt_Alex I am not sure how to word this. I have had a girl on this site ask me out and i know her in real life. I value my friendship with her and am not sure how to respond to her request. I have been on several dates but have had to cut several of them short due to the fact when i am not on duty as a medic i am almost always on call. A couple of the girls asked to go on the run with me but i couldn't allow them due to policies and liability issues where i work. Any advice here would be of great help!
So I guess you could tell your friend you'd like to be friends, and have her know about your job. Sorry if I wasn't much help. n_n; I appreciate your thoughts and ideas on this matter! The girl does have my pager and cellphone number and nextel Direct Connect Number to reach me. I will let her know and Thanks Again!
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:47 pm
Ssgt_Alex minus infinity Ssgt_Alex I am not sure how to word this. I have had a girl on this site ask me out and i know her in real life. I value my friendship with her and am not sure how to respond to her request. I have been on several dates but have had to cut several of them short due to the fact when i am not on duty as a medic i am almost always on call. A couple of the girls asked to go on the run with me but i couldn't allow them due to policies and liability issues where i work. Any advice here would be of great help!
So I guess you could tell your friend you'd like to be friends, and have her know about your job. Sorry if I wasn't much help. n_n; I appreciate your thoughts and ideas on this matter! The girl does have my pager and cellphone number and nextel Direct Connect Number to reach me. I will let her know and Thanks Again!
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 10:25 pm
Thanks! I think part of my problem is that when i am at work i take charge and do what needs to be done. Then when i leave work, it's like i become shy and bashful. When i was in the army i took charge because i had to, not by choice. I am more of a follower than a leader and almost always work better by myself behind the scenes.
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 1:41 am
if you do not want to ruin a relationship then just kindly explain to her perhaps it is better to be friends and leave it at that.
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 6:22 am
I ended up contacting her and we are seeing each other. As for her she has a kid and i dont have any problem with that. I told her to bring the kid along to join us and we ended up going somewhere that was kid friendly. the little guy (her kid) had a blast.
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