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 Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 4:20 pm
Um... Here is my problem... I would love it if people would help me.
Here it is:
I'm 13... As I introduced myself. And... Someone forced me into smoking. Not drugs... Just smoking. I hate it... But I got addicted. I want to stop... But I have no confidence to. I feel like a bad person... Please... I need some advice.
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 5:41 pm
Giving into peer pressure is natural. If smoking really bothers you that much, talk to your mum or your dad, whomever you're closer to and seek help from them. If you can't look to your parents for help, then look for a friend. When the urge to smoke comes along, do something else. Eat a sucker or chew gum.
PM if you need help.
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 8:01 pm
If my mom would know... She would like... Destroy my head... O_O
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:02 pm
i dont know what to say man.
your still young ya know.
you could just stop and like resist if you can RESIST IT!! lmao
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 12:24 am
That's it! I CAN'T resist. It is so hard...
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:37 pm
(Man i hate smoking i don't but i have had a cigeret once,I smoke a whole one.And you know what i did.I did not smoke another one i hated it.I am the only one inn my house that dose not smoke.And you know what.I never want to smoke it sdon't bother me at all.I know everyone is deferent.But here is my seceret find a hobby like someone said erlyer.I may not be addictid to smokeing but i am to Video Games and the computer,>Man it's hard to tear me away from my games.)
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:41 pm
Cold Turkey, p***y
I did it...and I have been sober for 18 years..
I once died for 15 minutes, while doing black tar herion
I saw Jesus Christ himself...
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:22 pm
Keep these in mind and consider them.
1. pick up your lighter and throw it out, NOW.
2. Think of the cigarettes as cancer in a stick.
3. Each cigarette shaves 3 days off your life. (not really but thinking it might scare you into quitting)
4. It is absolutely the most repulsive thing you can do
5. Alcohol is not the solution
6.Don't hang out with this person anymore, they threaten you sick the cops on them
7. Witness protection, if you fear this person alot ask for protection (i doubt you'll need it but just a thought)
8. You will die from smoking sooner than someone who doesn't smoke.
Not to scare you but seriously, it's bad. Also, try finding a solution to smoking, like drinking coffee, or eating crackers. Get your self addicted to something thats not harmful. I'm not an expert on anything smoking so I hope this helps.
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 6:58 pm
You don't need to take their advice, worrying over it like it is a problem will only worsen your situation with yourself.
Just live your life and enjoy what little time humans even get.
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 3:18 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:33 am
1. get rid of all ur cigarettes
2. get rid of ur lighter
3. stay away from those ppl who forced u to start
4. stay away from ppl who smoke
5. stay away from places where u can get cigarettes
6. stay away from places where others smoke
7. once u decide to stop, DONT EVER start again, cuz even tho u tell urself its only one more, it never is just one more.
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:34 am
Thomas Hopper That's it! I CAN'T resist. It is so hard... and whatever u do, dont ever tell urself that u cant do it, cuz despite what u say, U CAN QUIT
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Techni-coloured BloodBath
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 1:49 pm
You're still young, so it's much easier for you to stop now.
The reason it's so difficult for you is because you think you can't...
But you just need to get all those negative thoughts out of your head.
You're not weak because you can't stop.
You're not a failure and you shouldn't be ashamed.
Experimenting is natural...
And if you really want to stop, you can.
Just do as everyone else said...
Throw out your cigs.
Throw out your lighter.
Avoid the places you get cigs (since you're not old enough to buy them, it must be from a friend or you get someone else to buy them)
And avoid the people who made you start in the first place.
The hardest obstical to over come when you're a smoker, is if you hang around other smokers. The temptation is always there, in your face.
Also, it's easier to quit if you have someone to guide you.
Either a friend who can be like your inspirational coach and keep you on track...
Or maybe even one of the smokers... maybe they want to quit too. you can quit together...
I think you're very lucky to realize early on that you want to quit smile
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Posted: Tue Oct 21, 2008 1:46 am
xXMy_Wrists_Are_CryingXx Giving into peer pressure is natural. If smoking really bothers you that much, talk to your mum or your dad, whomever you're closer to and seek help from them. If you can't look to your parents for help, then look for a friend. When the urge to smoke comes along, do something else. Eat a sucker or chew gum.
PM if you need help. good one ^_____^
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