• If you heard you lover scream in the next room, and you ran in and saw their pinkie on the floor in a small puddle of blood you wouldnt rush to the pinkie and say my darling are you okay? No, you'de wrap your arms around their shoulders and worry about the pinkie later. The same would be true if you heard the scream, ran in, and saw their hand, or, God Forbid, their whole arm. But suppose you heard your lover scream in the next room, and your run in, and their head is on the floor, next to their body, Which do you run to and comfort first?